I would defiantly agree with how you mentioned previous threads with having professionals do anodizing. I haven’t done any anodizing of vex parts but I looked into it a few months ago and the steps it would take to do it yourself is high and time consuming.
For painting its another topic, we painted some aluminium a few years back and to this day it’s still working well (we use it as a business card holder). How I paint any type of metal at least, is with a Rust-Oleum spray paint on a surface that was scuffed up with Scotch Brite,
Yes my robot is pink : ) Originally i wanted the entire robot pink but i think i like having pink accents better, so standoffs rubber bands and other random little parts are pink, you can see my robot on instagram if you want (@/36830k). I simply spray painted the metal and sealed it with a mod podge spray. The plastic parts- gears, wheels, sprockets- we dyed black since we obviously cant dye them a lighter color lol.